FAQ

Yes, I do. As a member of my website you get access to SexCamCentral, which is a network of webcams featuring live shows from webgals like me! I do a hardcore girl-guy show with James every Tuesday night at 9PM (Eastern).

2) Can I chat with you?

As a member of my site you get to chat with me every week during my SexCamCentral webcam shows.

3) Do you have an online journal or blog?

Actually, I have two . You can find my personal blog here and you can find my sex news and education blog here.

4) Why did you create an adult website?

I became interested in creating an adult website through my experiences in the "alternative lifestyle" scene. (See question 5 for more details about that). The lifestyle gave me a sense of sexual freedom that I had never felt before. Then, sometime in the spring of 1998 I decided that an adult website would be a great way for me to express myself sexually and to share my views and experiences with the world. I began working on my site in the fall and put it up in January 1999.

5) How did you become involved in the "alternative lifestyle" scene?

During the winter of 1995 I started attending fetish nights at a local club with a girlfriend of mine. With my boyfriend's knowledge, I had my first one night stand ever with a guy I met there. That night, things just clicked for me. I realized that sex and love were two very different things and that I could experience them not only together, but separately as well. Then one year or so later, when I took part in a threesome, I realized that I liked group sex. From that point on, things kind of snowballed. I continued to go to the fetish nights and swingers' parties and I explored my exhibitionist nature. Through the "scene", we have made some wonderful friends and have grown closer as a couple. It has also allowed me to evolve as a person and instilled in me the value of freedom of expression, freedom of choice, trust and honesty.

Things have chnaged a bit from those early days. I am more into doing things on my own with friends and lovers rather at clubs and parties. I enjoy the intimacy and intensity this brings to my life.

6) Don't you feel that you are cheating on your partner when you have sex with other people?

No, I don't. After a great deal of thought and discussion with James, we have come to believe that there is a big difference between love and sex. We feel that, for us, it is possible to have sex outside of our relationship and still remain committed to and in love with one another. As long as everyone involved in the polyamorous or polysexual situation is an adult and consents to their role, then the arrangement can work. If I meet someone and we want to have sex, I will only do so if he or she is aware of my relationship. Honesty, trust and communication are essential for poly-relationships to work.

7) What about safer sex? Aren't you afraid of AIDS?

I practice safer sex with my partners. There are certain things I will do and certain things I won't. Each of us has to make decisions about our sexual limits and boundaries and that includes how safe we want to be. Some people choose complete abstinence or monogamy. I haven't chosen those options, but I respect those who have. In return, I hope people can respect my choices and limits. If someone isn't comfortable with my level of safeness, then they don't have to have sex with me. This goes both ways.

8) When did you first realize you were bisexual?

I first felt attracted to girls when I was about 12 years old. At the time I had no idea what these feelings meant, so I basically ignored them. As a teenager I continued to be aroused by women. I would watch movies with nude scenes of women and then rewind and watch the scenes again (and again and again!). I was completely turned on by the sight of a woman's breasts, her curves, and her sexuality. At around the age of 20 I became interested in being with another woman. Sometimes I would watch movies and imagine myself with the women I saw. A few years later I went to lesbian clubs, but because I had a boyfriend I wasn't of much interest to the women at the clubs. It also could have been my terrible flirting style (I am very shy and aloof when I first meet people; I can't pick up a man, much less a woman!). Then, finally, I took part in a threesome with a friend of mine and a male friend of hers. Now, I am no longer shy or concerned about my bisexuality. It is a part of who I am.

9) How old were you when you first had sexual intercourse?

I feel like a cliché when I think back to my youthful past. I was a bit of a square and I did not date during high school. Things changed when I went to college. I engaged in some more serious flirtations and fooled around a bit with boys at parties. Then at the end of my first year I fell in love. We became serious very quickly. After about a month of dating we had sexual intercourse. It was very well planned and something I never regretted.

10) When did you first have anal sex?

I can't remember the exact date, but it must have been 6 months or so into my relationship with James. The first time was pretty good. I lubed myself up and I basically tried to relax and think of something other than the discomfort (yes, it can be a bit painful, especially the first couple of times when you do not know what to expect). Once things got going it was very good. I remember vividly how it felt when he came inside of me. It was like nothing I had ever felt before. I love giving James pleasure and anal sex is one of his favorite ways for me to do that. Since then, anal sex has been a roller coaster ride for us. We do it regularly for a few months and then not at all. I have found that I have to really be in the mood to do it and enjoy it. It is also very important that I be super clean. So it kind of has to be planned for, both physically and mentally.

11) How did you become involved with S&M, D&B?

I am not heavily into the S&M scene, but it has been an interest and turn-on of mine. I prefer exploring power dynamics with James or another of my main partners. I do enjoy attending public events from time to time to soak up the atmosphere and to be a voyeur in on the play.

I am not turned on by pain – receiving it or inflicting it, but I do enjoy certain forms of sensation play, like spanking, under certain circumstances. I normally tend to be dominant which works out well because James enjoys exploring his submissive side with me. He has a foot fetish and loves to pamper my feet. At first it felt a bit odd when he'd kiss and lick them. Yet the more he'd do it, the more it would turn me on. Now, it is a significant turn on for me when I have sex with him as well as with other partners.

12) What are your fetishes?

I don't have any true fetishes. However, I do know of some things that excite me. Here is a selection: Music is a huge one. Certain songs just drive me wild. When I hear them I am instantly turned on. Basically, music can put me in the mood. It all depends on the song.

Water is another turn on. I love taking baths and showers. I suppose the feeling is so sensual that it revs me up. Of course, a shower massage doesn't hurt! I also love to skinny dip, especially in the ocean or even in a lake (as long as it isn't murky). I've skinny dipped in pools, lakes, the Atlantic ocean, the Caribbean, and even in a stream created by a beaver dam. I've done it by myself, but it is always much more fun with other people.

Dressing up turns me on. I love wearing high heels, stockings, and vintage lingerie. Dressing up makes me feel feminine and sexy. I also enjoy costumes and role-playing from time to time. Role playing allows me to live out my fantasies and explore my desires and limits. I'll never be a naughty nurse or virginal school girl in real life, but in my fantasy world I can be anyone I want to be.

13) Can I meet you ? Can I have sex with you?

If you would like to meet me and James, please come to one of the parties listed on my party page. They are the only places I meet people who contact me on the web.

As for having sex with me, most likely no. My site may make it seem that I am sexually available to many people, but I am not. I am very selective about my partners. I like to be with people who turn me on and with whom I share chemistry. I think it only makes sense that you have sex with people you are attracted to. The attraction, for me, is usually a mix of physical and personality attributes. It is something I can't quite pin down, but my "type" is healthy, clean, funny, kind, and a little bit wicked. I rarely ever have sex with people I meet through my site with the exception of other webgals like myself.

14) Where do you get your sex toys?

For the last few years I have been getting my toys from Come As You Are - Canada's co-operatively run sex toy, book and video store. I really appreciate their approach to sexuality and pleasure so I always feel good getting my toys from them. They are located in Toronto, but they also have a convenient online store. If you are located in Canada and spend over $80, shipping is free. That is pretty nifty!

15) Can you send me your picture, your autograph?

Unfortunately due to the great demand I get for autographs, and the fact that I run my site myself, I just don't have the means to supply them. I am more than happy to sign autographs in person at the parties listed on my party page. I also cannot send out or e-mail pictures. If you want to see more pictures you should consider getting a membership to my site.

16) Where can I read an independent review of your site?

You can read what other people have to say about my site at www.thebestporn.com, www.janesguide.com, www.pornliving.com and at www.x3guide.com.

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