Vital Statistics

Hello everyone! My name is Seska. I live in Montreal, Canada with my husband James. For the past 10 years I have been having an absolute blast having sex, taking pictures and video of it, and best of all, sharing it with all of you. When James and I began exploring the alternative lifestyle scene we had no idea where it would lead us…fetish nights, swing clubs, orgies and having a hardcore site on the Net. It has been a wild, wild ride and we have been loving every minute of it!

Want to know more about me? Read on!

Just the basics… Astrological Sign: Aquarius Measurements: 34A [but hey, it's an A+ :-)], 26, 36 and I am 5'4" Special features: green eyes, birthmark (where? you have to discover that for yourself), lots of little beauty marks all over my body Marital Status: I am polyamorous. I am married to James, but I am also involved with other friends and lovers. This is not simply sleeping around. It involves having a code of ethics and behaviour, connecting with people based on various levels of intimacy and sometimes even experiencing romantic love with them. Sexual Orientation: Bent. There are different terms people use, like bisexual or pansexual and both do apply to me. However, I prefer the word bent because I am definitely not straight!

A few of my favourite things… TV: Current stuff such as Boston Legal, The Hour, LOST, Prison Break, SNL, and Smallville. I also used to enjoy Angel, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Gilmore Girls, and Six Feet Under. There are a bunch of shows I know I need to see on DVD, but have not yet had the time to do so. Examples? Deadwood, Firefly, Rome, Weeds, to name a few. Online: Tom Green, Galacticast, Têtes à Claques Movies: Breakfast at Tiffany's, Clue, The Company of Strangers, Donnie Darko, Finding Nemo, The Graduate, Grease (1 & 2 - yes, I said 2 - it's a nostalgia thing), Pride and Prejudice (the mini series), Princess Bride, Rebel Without a Cause, Rocky Horror Picture Show Books: My favourite non-fiction relastionship book is Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic by Esther Perel. I cannot recommend it enough. It is a must read! In terms of fiction - Anne of Green Gables series (pure childhood nostalgia), biographies of Louise Brooks and Audrey Hepburn by Barry Paris, Of Mice and Men (I cry every time I read it), the Outlander series by Diana Gabaldon (I cannot wait until the next one comes out) Music: I listen to music when I run so most of what I listen to is upbeat rock and pop stuff, though I do have a sweet spot for 1960's and 1980's music (this kind of stuff tends to be the inspiration for my burlesque performances) I often get really into a certain song and I listen to it intensely while I run errands or take the bus/metro. Lately I am enjoying Kids by MGMT and some Kate Bush classics. My most favourite songs however are sentimental choices - Leaving on a Jet Plane by John Denver and City of New Orleans by Arlo Guthrie, Foods: pasta puttenesca (minus the anchovies), peanut butter and jam sandwiches, gazpacho, hot and sour soup, tapioca pudding (all vegan of course!) Clothes: I find you can't go wrong with a tight black knee length skirt! I can dress it up or dress it down depending on the occasion. I adore wearing stockings, thigh highs, and fishnets - especially with cute open toe shoes or spike heels. When it comes to just being cosy I love jeans and cargo pants with soft t-shirts and tank tops. On my feet - Jack Purcell's or flip flops.

What (and who) gets my engine going… Humour (being able to laugh at yourself is so attractive), music with a hard, driving beat, dressing up, playing pretend, water (taking steaming hot baths makes me feel so sexy and skinny dipping makes me feel so free) Besides my real life lovers, I also have crushes on people in the public eye (in alphabetical order - I hate playing favourites): Maria Bello, Selma Blair, John Hamm, and Tom Welling. I also have this long time attraction to Jeff Goldblum. Just something about him. A few extras… I am a vegan. I volunteer both online and in the flesh for various sex education and sex workers' rights organizations. I am a runner. I trained for a half-marathon but prefer running 10ks. I love to take naps. I am really into burlesqueperforming - you can find a listing of my burlesque activities here. I talk in my sleep. Some of my favorite quotes… "There is a vitality, a life-force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action. And because there is only one you in all of time this expression is unique and if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is, nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open whether you choose to take an art class, keep a journal, record your dreams, dance your story or live each day from your creative source. Above all else, keep the channel open." - Martha Graham "Until you lose your reputation, you never realize what a burden it was or what freedom really is." - Margaret Mitchell My motivations… For life - the big blue sky, creatures great and small, friends and family For this web site - to share my creative and sexual side with the world, to help change archaic and destructive beliefs about women and sex by being an example of sincere sexuality, and to bring pleasure to the lives of others Work Related Endeavours Click here for my online and sex work related curriculum vitae.